Dion's Life Column

[Chloe]

If you have a question or you need advice to do with Life leave Dion a message here!

[Lisa]

hey dion

i wud like to know why do people lie?

xLisax

[Dion]

Hey Lisa, Well everyone lies, so go on admitt it! There are liars and there are LIARS. Many people lie for all different reasons this cuold be to with the most stupid reason or to try and cover something up. Other people lie because of a disability and cannot help but to lie. People lie to act superior to another person, and also to try and make the person listening to the lie to be inferior. What is a lie? well a lie is an untrue and false but deliberatly presented as being true. One of the most common lies is the phrase "I didn't do it". This phrase is mainly use to get them out of trouble and to avoid punishment and to get them out of a situation, that may damage their career, and reputation. The person may also tell this lie because they may not be able to come to terms with what they have done and or they are too afraid of being blamed or found out. Other blatant liars, lie because they are so used to lieing they actually believe their own lies and will lie from just about anything. This is said to be a disability and called a Compulsive Lieing Disorder.

I hope I have been of help

[Gavin]

hi dion why do girls mees boys around can you give me some advice thanks gavin

[Dion]

Hi Gavin, Well Girl's mess boys around just as much as Boy's mess them around. This is usually a 2 way process. Girl's may do this to try and get the attention of the lads, maybe to see how keen they really are and to see if they chase them. Sometimes a girl might not like the lad so by playing mind games makes the girl superior to the lad having that power over him. Even though people don't realise this, this maybe defined as twisted.

[Gavin]

hi dion erm how do i make mine and someone else firends ship even better by doing what i need some advice thanks Gavin

[Dion]

Well Gavin maintaining friendship with your friends is quite simple.
Treat your friends with respect, as they will they do the same with you. Dont threaten your friends, as this will only lead them not to like you, and for them only to talk to you just so you dont threaten them. A key problem people hate is been used, try not to use your friends and take them for granted because if you do your luck will run out and you will be left friendless. Be nice and kind to your friends. Sometimes you have a friend that you hardly know so try to get to know them better.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

And remember.....
Life without friends is like a garden without plants!

[emzi90]

Hi Dion well on saturday i sat on my mates bfs lap then we kissed rite in front of her a few times then back in the train station we kissed a few more times lol but wiv tongues now my bf is fine wiv it but my mate isnt im in love wiv 2 ppl i dunno wot to do no more plz help Dion or try to
lv emzi xxx

[Dion]

Hello Emma, Well first of all sitting on your friends boy friends lap and kissing him is very harsh and quite evil, especially when shes right there with you. Obviously you can't be much of a friend to her if you do things like that. Im not sure whether your boy friend dosent actually mind you doing things like that, maybe he does the same behind your back or he dosent really like you.
And of cause your friend isnt fine with you kissing her boy friend, who in there right mind would be? I think you should make your mind up and choose which person you want. Well that's if your friends boy friend wants you.
With all do respect, you are saying you dont know what to do anymore well that's quite strange as its you whose been rather harsh on your friend, taking her boy friend and going behind your boy friends back.
I think you need to stop taking your friend for granted and cheating on your boy friend whether he says he dosent mind or not. I also think you should apologise to your friend for doing that.

Regards.

[Gavin]

hi dion how are u what do u tihnk i sould do if i have a temper i need advice thanks gavin

[Dion]

Hi Gavin well if you have a temper im guessing you mean you get angry very easy. Anger is a term a term for the emotional phrase aggression. People express anger in many different ways whether its from the odd threats or insults. Sometimes people use anger when they are been attacked where thats verbal or non verbal we sometimes use anger to defend ourselves. A certain amount of anger is required for our surival in the world. How to control your anger is what you need to know. Simple relaxation tools such as deep breathing may help. Try to visualize a calming relaxing experience from your imagination. These could help you to keep your anger under control.
Anger Management classes may also help you to keep your anger at bay.
If you have a good friend that you can trust, why not talk to them about your anger and maybe they could help you control your anger.

Thanks for your post.